Taking the Pulse Of Your Club
A culture of caring, service and integrity is critical to success.
James Ware, an adult-learning expert and executive director of a research and
A Helping of Hospitality
First impressions count at Toastmasters meetings. How you greet guests speaks volumes about your club and its culture. Do you shake hands, invite visitors to sign
Friendly and inviting clubs seat guests next to veteran members who then explain meeting procedures. Introductions are made early and guests are formally welcomed with applause. Gina Cefalu, ACG, of Danville Toastmasters club in Danville, California, relates a best practice from her club: "At the beginning of meetings, we engage in round-table introductions—everyone present, including guests, announces their name, where they live, how long they’ve been in Toastmasters. They also answer a question related to the theme of the day—for instance, a favorite vacation spot or a New Year's resolution." Time should also be allotted at the meeting’s end to answer guest's questions and gain feedback about the club. A culture of caring is critical to the success of any club.
The Role of Club Officers
Officers are, in essence, the "parents" of every Toastmasters club in the sense that they set the tone and establish the practices that define the club and meeting experience. Are your leaders professional? Are they personable? Both are important. Do they get along with each other and work well as a governing body? Teamwork bodes well for the entire club. Guests who detect discord are naturally deterred from joining. When club officers are available to guests and show a genuine interest in visitors, visitors feel valued and are more likely to return and join your club. Officers who model hospitality, generosity and friendliness set the best tones for their club and all members can follow suit.
While all clubs are guided by bylaws for operation, they have the opportunity to create their own standing rules — rules of engagement, for their members and meetings. For instance, one club's standing rules stipulate that the club will pay the attendance of its president or VP, Education (the two second highest ranking officers, who also have voting privileges) at their conference's semi-annual district conference.
In some regions, districts hold a semi-annual Leadership breakfast events for their district's club officers. Some club'’ standing rules specify their club treat the current president to the cost of his or her breakfast. This shows an appreciation for the hard work and sacrifice of the top officer(s), and sends the message the club takes care of their own, recognizing and rewarding its officers’ service on their behalf.
Other clubs who meet over a meal at a restaurant have established a custom of treating a first-time guest to their meal. How hospitable! What a nice message it sends to guests. And you can bet it leaves a nice aftertaste in their visitor's mouth.
Some clubs feel the weekly winner of their Best Table Topics or Best Speaker of the day should not only publicly receive the club's trophy that meeting, but also have the option of bringing it to their workplace for the remainder of the week, before returning it for the next meeting. This showcases their success to others at work, and ensures they return to next week's meeting, if only to return the trophy and perhaps defend their victory! Mostly, it offers recognition for a job well done, and helps the recipient feel valued. What a nice practice.
Do Your Evaluations Elevate or Deflate?
One telltale indicator of a club's culture is the way evaluations are handled. If speech
The Role Of Club Officers
Officers are the leaders of Toastmasters meetings—they set the tone and establish the practices that define the club experience. Are your leaders professional? Are they personable? Do they work well together as a governing body? Teamwork bodes well for the entire club. When club officers show a genuine interest in visitors, these potential members feel valued and are more likely to join the club. Officers who model hospitality, generosity and friendliness set the best tone for a club,
Good Will to All
Most clubs comprise a mix of men and women of different ages, professions, backgrounds and beliefs, yet the members all come together to improve communication and leadership skills. Each club is a treasure trove—all members have stories, experiences and special skills to share. All clubs can embrace membership diversity and prosper by celebrating the different styles, backgrounds
Odile Petillot, DTM, past District 59 governor for continental Europe (which encompasses 17 countries and 10 distinct languages) well understands the value of diversity. A Toastmaster for 24 years, she views district conferences, speech contests and clubs with cultural diversity as opportunities to mingle with people from many different backgrounds, cultures and religions.
"These are laboratories where we can practice empathy and understanding," says Petillot, "and where members can open up, share their opinions, listen to other viewpoints, and discover other habits, traditions and ways of thinking and behaving."
"People want to know they belong and matter" says Kym Cadle, founder of PureAmbition in Berkeley, California. An expert on passion at work, Kym explains, "This is first and foremost when creating an engaged membership; An inclusive culture — where everyone is honored for their contributions — inspires involvement."
Tales of Two Tongues
A vast amount of clubs are bilingual today. Many divide each meeting’s time between English and another language, whether it's French or German, Japanese or Spanish,
For Canadian David Rowley, ACB, of Montreal’s HEC Toastmasters club, diversity is also the order of the day. "Our club was founded by MBA students who come to study at Hec Montreal business school from around the globe," he says. "Last year’s club president was from Austria, and is now working in Italy." Its membership also includes French Canadians, English Canadians, Americans and immigrants from Africa and Asia. As such, says Rowley, "We are lucky, because there is no single dominant culture." Together the members are forging their own club culture, whether they are speaking English or French.
Accent-uating Native Tongues
Last year, the MIIS Toastmasters club at the Monterey Institute of International
The club invited other clubs in the community to participate, and recruited their evaluators. All evaluations were given in English and interpreted into the four
Milestones, Rules and Rituals
The Toastmasters experience is full of milestones to celebrate, and rituals to observe. Many clubs decide that each member who completes an Ice Breaker speech receives a membership pin to acknowledge their achievement. Similarly, a ribbon and short ceremony celebrate members’ achievements after giving their 10th speech.
All clubs have anniversaries of their formation. Are you celebrating yours? Reach back and invite charter members to return. Invite spouses, partners and loved ones to join in the festivities surrounding your club's anniversary or its achievement of President's Select, Select or Distinguished status each year. These events build pride, boost member’s self-esteem and show the power and glory of the Toastmasters experience. Invite recent guests to hear testimonials so that they may feel the confidence that is exuded by club members.
While all clubs are guided by operational bylaws, clubs can also create their own rules
When a new member joins Tokyo Toastmasters in Tokyo, Japan, he or she is inducted in a ceremony in which the new member reads a customized version of the Toastmasters Promise aloud, followed by other club members from Japan, Korea, India, the United States and other countries who also read it out loud. This sharing of vows, not unlike in a marriage, bodes well for all parties.
Winners of the Best Table Topics or Best Speaker contests are sometimes awarded a club trophy for the duration of the event, but some clubs give them the option of bringing the trophy to work for the week— or until the next meeting—to showcase a member’s success to co-workers. This practice also ensures the member’s return to the next meeting, if only to return the trophy, or perhaps to defend his victory! It offers recognition for a job well done, and helps the recipient feel valued.
Discord to Accord
Over time in clubs there will be differences of opinions on various matters, customs and practices. That’s natural. Yet not every club handles discord similarly. Clubs with a healthy culture seek to address issues as they arise, discuss with cordial discourse, and come to agreements or understandings. Less functional clubs often sweep disagreements under the rug — ignoring them in hopes they will go away. (Yet they rarely do.) As a result, problems can linger, fester or sometimes balloon out of control, resulting in flagging morale and high turnover. Club leaders who use their communication skills to maturely address discord in a timely manner and report its resolution ensure a club's culture that remains professional, yet personable.
"The best way to make group members feel safe is to have group agreements that are clear enough that everybody gets them," say Dr. Ann Steiner, a group therapist and group dynamics expert in Lafayette California. In the case of Toastmasters, all members sign a pledge when they join a club. The Toastmaster’s Promise forms a commitment on the part of members to each other and the club: To help the club maintain the positive, friendly environment necessary for all members to learn and grow; to treat fellow club members and guests with respect and courtesy; To provide fellow members with helpful, constructive evaluations. Dr. Steiner explains, "when a member’s behavior falls outside of these parameters the club can harken back to this promise and point out that their actions are out of integrity."
Many clubs avoid confrontation because it's uncomfortable and can hurt feelings. Dr. Steiner warns of the ill effects of sweeping issues under the carpet and ignoring them. "When issues are swept under the rug; the club is sending a covert message that it's not okay to talk openly about these topics." This can itself lead to discomfort, or worse.
"Our culture is heavy on competition. Yet groups that thrive are ones that are heavier of collaboration," explains Dr. Steiner. "So you’re not going to eliminate competition. But a group that maximizes collaboration and discussion increases the safety for its members, and as such, its sustainability."
How can you assess your club’s culture? Among the best resources to guide you is the Moments of Truth self-evaluation tool. Use this tool (Item 290 in the Toastmasters Online Store) to work through a checklist of features to determine your club’s performance and practices. It will help you identify areas for improvement in operations and efficiency, and even in friendliness—all key elements of a club's culture.
The late New York City Mayor Ed Koch was known to always ask his constituents, "How am I doing?" You, too, should be asking this question about your club. Ask new Toastmasters and veteran members about their experiences. And don't underestimate the value of your guests' observations. Visitors arrive with fresh eyes, and it's essential to your club's future to appeal to these guests. Welcome them and meld your club culture with what's important to them—not just to sustain your club, but to grow it too.